I just added a link to Ask Moxie for some Advice over the to the right there. She's good. And if she doesn't know, chances are her readers do. I comment there occasionally when I have something good to add (usually about working and pumping breastmilk or other career-related topics or recipes).
I asked Moxie way back when Chuckles was 7-months old and never ever ever slept through the night ever. He still doesn't do it every night, but some kids don't and he's perfect just the way he is (even if I need my beauty rest). Moxie calmed me down and told me it would eventually pass, I was doing everything I could, and it wasn't my fault because I did something wrong or didn't do something else.